What do you look for in a suitor?
I'd be lying if I said I didn't enjoy the company of humble globetrotting polymaths, but primarily I’ve found my litmus test for lovers and friends to be how seriously you take yourself. What matters the most to me is that you are open-minded, and kind.
Do you offer Incall?
In NYC & SF I can host out of a 5 star hotel. LA incall will be available starting October 2018.
What is your ideal date?
I love to dance and find live music to be one of the most uniquely erotic experiences. My perfect date begins with making eyes at each other over dinner, a stroll, or show before retiring to somewhere private, preferably a location with scented candles. At the risk of sounding cliché, the most intriguing organ is located between our ears; if I catch a glimpse of that, there’s no saying where things might take us. I have a two hour minimum because I believe the session can only be as good as the conversation which proceeded it.
What is the meaning of life?
You've got me. I can't say, but I suspect the paint which colors existence involves richness of experience, purpose, and human connection.
I’ve never done this before, what should I expect?
Please see my simple instructions for screening without references here. I guess the only thing I would stress is don’t be nervous! Meeting will be no different than a first date, it will involve talking, laughing and getting to know each other (preferably over good food). I usually recommend three hours so that we have time to build trust and become comfortable with the other person. After successful dates I am always more than happy to provide a reference. While on the topics of references...
Will you provide a reference?
If we have met in the past year and you feel it went well please do not hesitate to use me as reference! I love the reference system because I feel it keeps my friends and I the most safe. Simply pass my information along -there is no need to ask my permission first. Please use, but do not abuse the system.
Can I bring you something?
While gifts are never expected, I like books! Also herbal teas, small boxes, dark chocolate, potted plants, and obscure musical instruments are things I cherish. I don't like alcohol or designer things.
When will you be in my city?
When not backpacking for fun, I spend most of my time in California and New York. If you'd like to see me somewhere other than the coasts, fly me to you is a great option. If you'd like to know which coast to find me on, please prescreen for travel notes.
Three favorite Authors
Camus, Murakami, Anne Carson
three favorite things
Sand dunes, sandwiches, road trips